WORDS: Karen Bielak, Simplicity Funerals
With the rise in popularity of pre-paid end-of-life arrangements and a determination to ‘do it my way’ and ‘keep it simple’, living funerals make sense to many.
Not only are living funerals the party to end all parties, but they can also provide a moment of reprieve for those who have endured long term illness and an uplifting occasion for loved ones who have shared your journey.
“It can be an opportunity to reminisce, connect and create positive memories with loved ones while you’re still here,” says Karen Bielak, Simplicity Enfield Location Manager who also says they’re perfect for those who want a simple, nofuss funeral after they’re gone.
It can also be quite empowering. Not only do you remove stress and worry from loved ones, you also get to tailor the party exactly as you see fit.
How does it work?
“Often it may start with a conversation with your loved ones. You may find yourself discussing the things that make you, you,” says Karen.
As humans, our life journeys are an intricate weaving of moments. Places we made memories, people we loved, delicious foods and feasts we enjoyed, favourite smells and sounds that make us pause and so much more. Identifying these things are a great starting point for determining your wake, whether you plan on attending or not, to ensure your farewell is a true reflection of you.
If you find yourself with a smile upon your lips or a laugh in your belly as you identify your life’s highlights, these are the moments your local Funeral Arranger can help you bring together.
You may want to chat to your family or make it a surprise! Either way, talking with an experienced Funeral Arranger will help you decide what end-of-life arrangements are best for you.
Established right here in Adelaide in 1979, Simplicity Funerals offers a simple, caring and informative approach gained from decades of experience.
“At Simplicity, we’re committed to celebrating your life and memories in many ways, including while you’re still here,” says Karen who has had all sorts of requests over the years.
“We will work with you, your family and medical team to make it what you want it to be. We will honestly answer your questions, listen to what you want and help create the ultimate last hoorah.”
Just like a regular funeral, we will invite your guests, ask them to share their favourite memories, determine your playlist, collate your life story in words and images, organise the decorations and provide the catering for guests to mingle.
Unlike a regular service, you’re there to greet your guests, share your favourite memories, enjoy your favourite songs, leave nothing unsaid and create some positive final moments.
Make it memorable, make it personal
There are many ways to make your wide awake wake one to remember and you can even have a personalised coffin on display!
For AFL fans, a Crows themed party, complete with a fully decaled coffin might be all the inspiration you need to bring the team together.
For others, you may enjoy exploring the details of personalisation with items in flower bouquets, sustainable and regeneration paper options or catering some of your favourite bites. Afterall, you’re there to enjoy every moment.
Make it a party, bring a band or call in a DJ. Capture special moments with a photobooth, photographer or videographer and enjoy it all in your favourite place. You may choose to host it at one of our seven South Australian venues, your home, a local garden or your favourite pub.
Consider traditions or cultural elements that bring you together. From smoking ceremonies, bell ringing or orthodox chanting, to bagpipes, traditional dress or a favourite lipstick, these are all elements to consider for your living wake.
Whatever you decide, Simplicity are here to help. Simply call your experienced and caring funeral professionals on 1300 556 222 to get the conversation started.
